1. Resham ke kapde na pehno aur sone chandi ke bartano mai na khao.
2. Pet ke bal jhuk kar, ek hath ke chhullu se aur kutte ki tarah pani me muh dalkar pani na piyo.
3. Ek sath mil baith kar khaya karo ki isme barkat hai.
4. Pet bhar kar na khao. Ek tihayi hissa khane se bharo, ek tihayi hissa pani se bharo aur ek tihayi hissa sans lene ke liye khali rakhkho.
5. Ek sans miem pani na piyo balki 2-3 sans me piyo. Pine se pehle BISHMILLAH padho aur pine ke baad All-HAMDULILLAH kaha karo.
6. Ba waju khane pine me ghar mai barkat hoti hai.
7. Mehman ki izzat karo, padosiyon ko taklif na do, bolo to koi achchi baat hi bolo, warna khamosh raho. Aur apne rishtedaaro se achchha bartao karo.
8. Allah ne Jin-Jin chizon se mana farmaya, unse bachte raho, parhezgaar ban jao, apni kismat par razi raho, sab se khushaal ban jaoge, apne padosi ke sath achchha bartaw karo, ziyda mat haso kyun ki ziyda hasne se dil murda ho jata hai.
9. Kisi ke liye ye zayaz nahi ki wo apne kisi (dini) bhai se 3-din se ziyda Salam-kalam bandh rakhe. Isliye agar kabhi aisa ho jaye to mulakat karke salam kare. Agar samne wale ne jawab na diya sawab me dono sharik ho jayege. Agar jawab nahi diya to wah gunahgaar hoga. Aur salam karne wala gunah se bari ho jayega. (ABU-DAUD)
10. Jisne is haal mai subha ki ke woh apne maa-baap ka farmabardar rahe to subha se hi uske liye JANNAT ke darwaze khul jate hai. Aur jo nafarmani ki halat mai subha karta hai uske liye subha se hi JANANNAM ke darwaze khul jate hai.
11. Maa-Baap ki nafarmani karne wala unke intiqal ke baad agar unke liye dua-e-magfirat karta rahe to ALLAH PAAK usse nek bana deta hai.
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